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Needs help on V-Day

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Okay....

#1) I really need this :embarrassed:

#2) Mods... if this is in the wrong place.. please move to correct place...

Now.... You can guess that this us going to be about love....

There is this boy at my school that I really like....

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Some of my freinds have been telling me I should finally tell him I like him ([i have liked him for a year and half now]) this V-Day.....

*sighs*

One of my friends from the same school had told me, as well as provide, that I should give him some Chocolate Pretzels... He loves chocolate....

I am not sure....

I told her that my self-esteem is low when it comes to these things, which it is, and she said I should go through with it....

I want to....

......but that ugly word that we all know as REJECTION keeps haunting me when it comes to telling him...

I am sure you have heard of it..... when your plan doesn't work, and you feel like your heart just got taken by that person?

Yeah.....

... I have kept, and still, thinking about that word that destroys love :cry:

*sighs*

I really need help on this...

Should I give him the Chocolate?

... Or just kinda leave it be?......

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This sounds simiar to my situation.

I like this girl at my school.

I think she kinda likes me back.

Though im not sure if i should send her a carnation.

Or ask her out.

Its cause of rejection. :cry:

We who dont have "a signifigant other" are worried of rejection. :cry::unsure:

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Moved to relationship forum.

have some confidence and give him the chocolate.

i cant speak for all boys, but i love it when girls make the first move.

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*sigh* I'm proably not helping your confidence with what happened on Friday, but...I say take a deep breath and do it. If he rejects you, it'll hurt, but you'll know. You'll be able to move on eventually instead of just watching him from the shadows and wondering. And if he likes you, maybe you can get somewhere. What I'm saying is: You'll benefit either way whether you know it or not. I've known this since last year, but I can't push myself to move on yet. It may take me a while, but I will. I'll be able to go back to normal. And, if the right guys comes, I won't miss him because I'm liking someone I don't know if they like me or not. You can do it. :biggrin: We'll(hyrule.net) be there for you for either turn out.

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Moved to relationship forum.

have some confidence and give him the chocolate.

i cant speak for all boys, but i love it when girls make the first move.

There is a relationships section? :huh:

Anyways.....

You are right.....

and Thank you ^^

And CatGirl.... Thanks a bunch, too :)

That makes me feel better that I have people I can be able to "lay down my feelings" per se

I am going to do it!!!!

I am just going to stand tall.... hold out that choclate... and say "will you be my valentine?"

*sighs*

I hope this will go in my favor, by which I mean he will be okay with it...

Or... I could write a note?

IDK

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Face to face is the best way to do it :) if your confident enough for it.

The relationship forum is new. ;)

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My advice is dont take advice, Follow your heart.

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Moved to relationship forum.

have some confidence and give him the chocolate.

i cant speak for all boys, but i love it when girls make the first move.

heh, yeah things would be so much easier if that was the case more often XD

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Cindy, you are very brave.

I'd never have the guts to do it, but good for you. Hope everything works out! :)

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My advice is dont take advice, Follow your heart.

Isn't that advice?

You should just go right up to him and just say it. Don't give your mind time to think. Hopefully, it should work. Just use (one) of my mottoes: Hakuna Matata (Lion King).

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