In Complete Shock

[Chocobo_Link 0]

I don't know if I should explain everything online... But I'm just so... well I just feel really terrible! First a fight with who I thought was a good friend wants to make ammends after treating me badly, and now this:

Last year I had my first boyfriend, but things were a bit shakey. We finally broke up for the last time, and I've hoped to put the past behind me and forget about him, but just last night I had a dream about him, and this morning I received a PM from him on Gaia. And now I've found out from his recent posts that he's 100%... gay... I'm just in so much schock, I feel terrible and antsy and he's just sent a friend request on Gaia.

I don't know what to do! Please Help!

[Odin 0]

Wow that is a shocker.

Well. He is your ex. So It doesn't really effect you in any other way than just a big shock, right? Don't worry about him.

I don't know. That's a pretty unusual situation.

Edited 17 Jul 2008 by Odin (see edit history)

[Young Link Addict 67]

I don't know, but I think is a job for Arcanelord. Where is he when you need him?

[Chocobo_Link 0]

Well... I... I kind of still have feelings for him... Which is a big problem, and now he's sent another message on Gaia to me. Ugh... I wish this never happened... I wish I never had a boyfriend. I should have waited until I was in high school.

[Arcane 12]

Wow.... that's stressful.

If you don't feel comfortable with him, I would avoid him. If he decides to break up and go gay, that's his problem. You don't need to be involved. It would probably just make things worse for you. I'm not sure if this is good advice, but given that info, it's what I'd do.

[Chocobo_Link 0]

Hmmm... Thanks ArcaneLord. You're a good person. Thanks for the heart-lifting advice

[Young Link Addict 67]

Hmmm... Thanks ArcaneLord. You're a good person. Thanks for the heart-lifting advice

[Arcane 12]

Hmmm... Thanks ArcaneLord. You're a good person. Thanks for the heart-lifting advice

[Chocobo_Link 0]

Thank you all for the helpful advice. I think I'm going to get off now and call my best friend. Maybe that'll get my mind off of everything.

Bai everyone!

[Young Link Addict 67]

Thank you all for the helpful advice. I think I'm going to get off now and call my best friend. Maybe that'll get my mind off of everything.

Bai everyone!

Bye.

[Arcane 12]

Adios.

[Cat Girl 0]

Yeah, talking to your friend about it will help. It always calms me down.

If you still have feelings for him, it's ok. You might feel a bit uncomfortable, but you should try to be friends. He's trying to reach out to you and let you know he wants to still be friends. And you've never really heard him say he's gay, have you?... Don't just assume unless you've got some hard-proof.

I hope it all works out for you.

[AarghZombies 0]

I hope you don't mind me asking, but how old are you? At certain times (well, some more than others) hormone are all over the place. You can never be sure of your sexuality. I shouldn't worry too much, yes it's a bit of a shock to you, but what about him? Imagine being in a stright relationship, but lying to yourself because you think you are gay.

Why don't you just drop him an email to say hi? If you were in a relationship one, he must know you as a good person, and you must have got to know each other. Who knows, maybe you've lost a boyfriend, but gained a lifelong friendship.

Hmm. Reading that back I sound a bit rude, apologies. I hope it works out!

[Fierce Muffin 490]

She's 14, according to her profile.

Also, OLOLOLOLLOLOOLOL.

MIDDLE SCHOOL RELATIONSHIPS.

[Chocobo_Link 0]

She's 14, according to her profile.

Also, OLOLOLOLLOLOOLOL.

MIDDLE SCHOOL RELATIONSHIPS.

I know. xD I don't think I'm gonna go through MS relationships anymore. Mainly because I'm going to high school next.